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原创 一家子吸血鬼+撒谎精,这配为人父母?

   日期:2021-01-29 00:41:38     作者:wangxiao    浏览:10    
核心提示:原标题:一家子吸血鬼+撒谎精,这配为人父母?今天不吃瓜,关注一个社会新闻。昨天,热搜上有一个话题叫“现实版樊胜美”。樊胜美是《欢乐颂》里蒋欣饰演的角色,表面光鲜亮丽,在一线城市
<!-- 政务处理 --> <p data-role="original-title" style="display:none">原标题:一家子吸血鬼+撒谎精,这配为人父母?</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">今天不吃瓜,关注一个社会新闻。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">昨天,热搜上有一个话题叫“现实版樊胜美”。</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/37399d6e4245f38cdd30bace.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">樊胜美是《欢乐颂》里蒋欣饰演的角色,表面光鲜亮丽,在一线城市有不错的工作,但实际上家里全是吸血鬼,把她当成ATM取款机。</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/55c328d35b0ef1949dd4ee6c.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">上新闻的这个女孩,就是樊胜美的现实版,甚至比樊胜美还惨。你几乎无法想象,一个人去世了,还要被家里人榨干最后一滴油。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">从这事怎么闹大了说起。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">杭州电视台有一档调解类的节目叫《和事佬》,前年他们做了一期节目,一个互联网公司的负责人找到电视台,想要调解一档纠纷,最近视频突然被翻出来了。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">他们公司有一个女孩,24岁,我们称为洛洛,在外人看来,她一定是优秀的,年轻漂亮,有一份不错的工作,才24岁月薪就一万多。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">但2019年10月17日,掉到钱塘江去世了(是自杀还是意外后文再说)。</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/0db8ae7fee6415062bb85d05.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">洛洛公司的老板在得知这件事后,第一时间赶到现场处理,17日早上9点女孩的尸体打捞上来了。</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/b7ea784dd5d5b104ee52903c.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/741886c8f51366e7c52796dd.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/668e5a40a192990b6a36478b.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/f2ccde3a655c01d105e5446e.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/64798e419c60e48e92550c5d.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/3c95f28f7c107eab3f6c628f.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/77b2074c5292c5ece29cde59.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/7d1ae40e6eae1654f5ecccec.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">之后,尸体送去殡仪馆,警察通知了洛洛的父母。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">这两位↓↓↓</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/2d3d1183a3a9ec1cc9904429.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">放大看一下↓↓↓</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/2d51619beba4bb06003213f5.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">从殡仪馆回来后啊,洛洛的父母就找到公司,问有没有一点补偿性的东西。</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/f17791ac9f57851095e404ce.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/15ed95c8477bf74302125791.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/af83921be388826a9a7b5364.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/31fd5062d2a96f53c4dd8f53.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/5ef9a010698d54be75b8a5f4.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/aaf40142b0b1c50eb1fb87f8.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/9f4622096ad58b5389d4c41e.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/a351e0e2e8359e83e6d2209d.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">老板说给两万块抚恤金。</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/8d1875ce8357f674b9a37f41.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">但洛洛的妈妈觉得少了,问能不能给5万,旁边有个亲戚又加了一万,考虑到人都没了,老板答应了。</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/ea2da2ed5042f91fc62a9e22.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/673920371f65900e8c2d39ef.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/7827acc356b3864148813416.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/d98a5bcec1a6d385f712de54.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/3b32228e43ba84aad3085455.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/44230eb19e8a4782cb431c51.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">最后抚恤金给了6万,加上其他的工资、饭补、奖金等一共是65632元。</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/497dd10cbd344b079f08d6c9.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">人没了,抚恤金给了,这事可能结束了。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">可没想到过去两三天之后,洛洛的爸妈又找上门,要三十多万。</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/11c20ec57c5372ffa2d73e21.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/34119091cad131654f2ef981.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/a81d96ae4050779d0b16f19b.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/61097c0ad67f673f59604384.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">突然一下子又要三十多万赔偿,总得有个说法或者是依据。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">洛洛妈妈说,女儿工作压力太大。</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/40ec3ccb53e6bfb120327e4e.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">但根据洛洛生前的打卡情况来看,工作时间是朝九晚六(她是公司设计总监,美工类的),加班也没有超过劳动法的规定。</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/4eac228becbd727208963ac6.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/09b8e7d12f55dc3e0926c9cb.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/ffd0e0528357f4a49a349183.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/21e0d1f648f80a9114221e0c.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/2bf7c11007cb2aac590dd387.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/8480ada4572f68b7ed94445a.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">全年365天,加起来没超过10天。</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/0b42ad79888781bfeab90ecc.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">然后洛洛的姑父表示,洛洛生前多次和弟弟透露,公司要上一个新项目,压力太大。</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/7011a2afa06080ea80c092fc.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/ebc0fb90ae301f94f1df37db.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">但老板说了,新项目在她去世之前,并没有启动,只是找洛洛谈话,想重点培养她。</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/c633d7875755954eee670b53.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/0fdafe13d4844a1048d68447.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/350565d9734d1e2e61662d7d.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/fb5b32c091773a35d5b4290e.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">所以,洛洛的去世和公司没有直接的关系。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">公司想重点培养员工,没错吧?洛洛也不是加班加到过劳死,也不是在上下班的途中出意外去世的。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">公司出于人道主义,给了6万,已经仁至义尽。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">要赔偿30多万,那就得走法律程序。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">可洛洛家人不走法律程序,说“我来闹,看你们撑不撑得住”。</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/3d9ed1c8e6dbd61d0a2c71c2.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/c8349e800161e18e5b3ca998.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/455eddd0468d82579ac94794.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/ba6801a2a460a6589b4a1d45.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/69704f88b7a4028e9ac156ef.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/47ecd9a0d08611179ce90a79.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">还三番五次闯公司,并带了两个混混来闹事。</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/713b166084d4efed6ffe51ff.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/8b36b658b99cafc10d811080.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/4055a27c9f0027836e8acc73.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/e113eab60a4486c565429535.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/5d83db7bd1aba1a4a96e590d.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/338379a6179038f474da3a45.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/244fd81b89ad17cad5c3c843.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">也是因此,公司的老板才找到《和事佬》节目来调解,而在此之前,已经找过警察多次,但都没有调解成功。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">但这还不是这件事最奇葩的地方,以女儿之死敲诈公司,只能说她父母贪心又无耻。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">更可恨的是什么呢?是洛洛的爸妈才是造成她死亡的直接原因。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">这一家子有多奇葩,我们来说说啊。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">女儿去世了没多久,妈妈上节目就擦脂抹粉,口红涂的完全不像是刚刚失去女儿的悲痛。</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/d5eda3e8683167567ad4c891.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">他们对女儿在外面上班的情况也一无所知,不知道女儿上班地点,不知道女儿在什么公司,不知道女儿电话号码,但女儿一个月一万多块钱倒是知晓得明明白白。</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/cf19129a20195cb728506a92.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">一般家里的长辈可能也不太知道儿女在哪儿上班,只知道薪资,但说不知道女儿电话号码就有点可笑了。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">而且,据洛洛的同事透露,洛洛爸爸一直问她借钱(借是说的好听点,还就另一回事了),在洛洛出事前一天,洛洛还一直想到妈妈对她不好的例子。</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/05b77e340c17ff62419abde4.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/ba01de86730db46f79909956.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/1c7ab46576bb49c23f7e1c4e.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/5799724e786bcab9c5516cd6.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/53cd5591c9bf6ac932066b7a.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/cda205a9a8f21ea31710244f.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/828ba157ffe7af9e54166c65.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">他们借钱有多夸张呢?</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">洛洛爸爸要一万,洛洛身上只有7000,爸爸说“那就都给我吧”。</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/ced27795cc312fbfebb22144.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/89421094d2b387b017bc5ab2.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/afcb02d15efabac08211e0a7.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/10fba3d06b859a0b40e70e44.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/2573da1b12188b3261db35fd.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">别人家的都是女儿淘汰的手机给妈妈用,洛洛家里的是妈妈用最新款,淘汰下来给女儿用。</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/e412a31da6493ffa4e9ac836.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/a4c4a8b52f80e8591008973c.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/caa0beb61a99043f1e2fada3.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">这一点在洛洛的微博上能找到,2019年,苹果11都快出来了,而月薪1万多的洛洛用的是苹果6。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">并且她在微博上不止一次表达过原生家庭带给自己的痛苦。</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/c6c95206b0d1879204a61e81.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">她很羡慕在有爱的家庭里长大的孩子。</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/4fa7666948b4f1fd72fbf635.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">父亲节那天,别人都是祝父亲快乐,她是祝甲方爸爸。</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/082ee97cbc7b1309ee1dbbb6.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">甚至说过,宁愿花钱买断亲情,从此两不相欠。</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/fcb3ea6231c5e0ab2eff45ab.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">迟到的亲情,对她而言反而是一种负担。(注意这里,她对妈妈的备注是名字,而且是免打扰)</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/90633455c0e37e03e55d377a.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">2019年下半年洛洛情绪一直很差,自杀过几次,尝试过割腕、吞药。</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/756f8b1c8772793dfbd03797.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">她不止一次说过,自己不被爱,但是她渴望被爱。</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/e50e0eecd94e058e3f550890.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/995ff5124bfc7f3a0e29b094.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">2019年10月14日,也就是洛洛自杀前三天,洛洛发文“亲情对于她而言,真的只有负担。”</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/32222bd86d2575b184f59f75.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">在她自杀的前一天,她睡不着。</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/a7577a25d1cc17536492f89c.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">10月17日,洛洛去了钱塘江看风景,然后人就没了。</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/beea04f2fca1211906fb3427.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">不过据公安那边通过监控得出结论,她并不是完全的自杀,是属于意外死亡。</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/91c60cf0e9d794c90d693f4c.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/cd3375d1685108d2e6b38688.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/074d7a143cbe4ad3dd58bc96.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/707838db7e7157c58abe33d0.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/06373b272f57da0a3853d99d.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/85dd553c1edf5afdd64bf453.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">洛洛的朋友也说,她当时本已鼓足勇气继续生活,但却碰上了涨潮意外事件。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">从朋友的这则说明中也可以看到,洛洛对自己很小气,买一双匡威犹豫很久,但对待父母和弟弟是倾其所有。</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/82e96202dbbe8c609fbd1689.jpeg" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">对,洛洛还有一个弟弟,在上大学。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">对于这样的一种搭配,大家应该不陌生,很多影视剧里都有,不只是樊胜美。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">《安家》中,孙俪饰演的房似锦,是家里的老四,生下来差点被妈扔到井里,能赚钱以后,就是家里的摇钱树,妈妈为了要钱还堵到她门口。</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/a84914acff435adee807f152.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">《都挺好》中的苏明玉,她哥哥出国家里砸锅卖铁,她想上学,却被母亲百般刁难苛刻。</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/9015458ad542a2234039a8ae.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">很多重男轻女的人,脑子里都有一种屎一样的观念,儿子才是家里的根,自己老了要靠儿子养,女儿结婚前是家里的摇钱树,结婚后是泼出去的水。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">可现实往往是,这样的人养出来的女儿,往往都很优秀(当然,心理上也免不了受到巨大的伤害),反而儿子,是自私又不成器。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">但愚昧的人意识不到垃圾教育背后藏着的隐患,错觉地认为家里有皇位要给儿子继承。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">洛洛这一家呢,也是一样,更可笑的是,他们一边压榨女儿到患上抑郁症,一边面对镜头用各种谎言来掩盖自己的无耻和没下限。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">调解员问他们:你们和女儿关系怎么样,他们说:挺好的。(挺好的,会不知道女儿电话号码?)</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/2b73681d00390ab30a43b973.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/917df197cdaa61c8a1e5f70b.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">调解员又问:女儿之前情绪比较波动,你们什么时候知道的?</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">妈妈:我们不知道。</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/74b8340ed3e7adfd9af2297f.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/60869acafbc2075d22175342.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/a7b2193e9d1b84b124744400.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">但真的不知道吗?</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">不,她知道,她早就知道女儿情绪不好,女儿想自杀。</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/f50223ba5b84fa9be7f20d5f.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">可她撒谎不知道,并且在女儿死后跑出来撕公司,说你们知道她有(抑郁症),为什么没有关心她?</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/39e8d82e8d5d9b6dd93bd5d1.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/0e6514928cd3ecb154736b4e.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">锅是不是甩的一级棒?杂技演员都没您厉害。</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/eb3d4eee986c7f139d08fad8.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">而一旦谎言被戳穿,公司老板指责他们害死了自己的女儿,还想出来骗钱,妈妈就气急败坏吼到“什么叫骗?”</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/be21d1ff28fe7657369fec12.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">“如果你女儿死了,就值六万块是不是?”</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/5c1b7a4e2c60f97b7d68efc9.gif" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">她明知道女儿的死和公司没关系,更大的责任在自己身上,却依然能装出一副人的样子来指责别人,像极了一个亲生妈妈为女儿讨公道,可言谈之中只看到一个大大的“钱”。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">要钱干嘛呢?给儿子付首付。</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/4f90e70ee4a7138ab08ca9e8.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/df1b9bb79edc0640da9fee9a.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">讽刺吧?借死了的女儿敲公司钱给儿子付首付买房。</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/9708a7904a93013377390e71.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">不仅要找公司要,还要找女儿的男朋友要,男朋友身上只有1万2,洛洛的爸妈拿走了1万。</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/4775a55ff984665b5be96ade.jpeg" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">合着别人都要给钱弥补,按这么算,您两口子以死谢罪都不为过吧?</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/aa89fbb24e7d9053fbb21463.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">哦,当然了,当着调解员和媒体在场,还是要说一些场面话。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">说自己不是真想要赔多少钱,要公司给一个态度安慰他们。</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/36c385a05e1146b57a85df38.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/3e9790945bdaa34ffbf145a5.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/bd11a7be5f5c1c472271d3d6.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/6d71ae2a332597b9e558e625.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/e6d4f2632b7989ac34e4371c.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/a47d045c567f73b007528b83.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">可调解员让他们拿一个方案来,又死活不开口。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">直到最后,调解员让他们说心里话,到底要个什么数字,洛洛的叔叔才出面,说还要25万。</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/4d5a24fbd4890403c34fea3e.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">当然,公司并没有同意,当时调解没成功。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">这件事最后在2019年11月份结束。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">一共是给了16万,6万是之前的抚恤金,10万应该是公司作为雇主给员工买的保险,先行垫付了,这10万已经是保险里的上限。</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/1e818b96a862d926b5cf7d3b.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/36c176d136deaa97a9114f73.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/2971240d86c9cfdbb3845722.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/a8b21299857463fd0b641e50.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">这件事爆出来,其实有两个点想聊聊。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">一是“和事佬”。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">我们小时候经常看很多调解类的节目,有各种家长里短,婆媳、妯娌、父母与子女之间的矛盾,通常在上完节目以后,就来一个happy ending。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">但当我们长大有了生活经验之后,才明白,关于人情之间的矛盾是最难调解的,它不是一朝一夕形成的,而是长久积压的矛盾。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">洛洛的死亡,说到底大部分的责任都要归咎到她父母的身上,和公司没有关系,可以说并不需要调解。若调解成功,是憋屈了公司,纵容了恶人。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">不过她生前的老板是个三观很正,很有社会责任感的人。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">如果是他们的责任,倾家荡产也会赔,但不是他们的责任,不会赔。他宁愿把这钱拿去捐了,也不给这一家子。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">之所以要找媒体,是为了告诉和洛洛有同样情况的女孩,千万不要寻死,要寻求帮助。</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/048e24a15ca1587f736596f3.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">这就说到第二个点,关于父母和子女。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">在节目中,和事佬传达一个观点,父母和洛洛之间不可能都是仇恨。</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/d6309af2856edd9612368af2.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">的确如此,父母和子女不可能都是仇恨,但类似这种家庭的情感,是比仇恨更复杂的一种存在。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">洛洛的爸妈对她不全然是金钱上的剥削,与此同时也会给予一些感情上的慰藉,比如给她寄一些枣。</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/4af37d429930241a9699cc3b.jpeg" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">就是这一点点的甜,让洛洛不忍心和父母完全断绝关系。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">《奇葩说》里马东曾说过一句话:心里很苦的人,只要一点点甜就可以填满。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">很多如洛洛这样的女孩,都很渴望来自家庭的关爱,是纯粹的父母对子女的关爱,而不是其他有条件的关爱。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">但越渴望,就越痛苦,因为得不到。而每当她完全对家里失望心冷之余,父母又再给一丁点的甜头,哪怕说一点好话,就把她拉了回来。可之后,依旧是无数次的伤心。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">她还不能反抗,她一反抗,父母就会以道德之名来绑架:你是我生的,我能不为你好吗?我一把屎一把尿把你养大,你也要为这个家做贡献,你不能这么狠心,不能没良心。</p> <p class="ql-align-center"><img src="/public/uploads/article/2021/01/29/82695a1f915ee7e3ddf018c6.png" max-width="600" /></p> <p class="ql-align-justify">一句“白眼狼”就把女儿辩解的路给堵死了。如此循环往复,最后女儿抑郁成疾。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">可什么是“白眼狼”?白眼狼是指忘恩负义、过河拆桥、恩将仇报的人。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">不给弟弟付首付是恩将仇报吗?女儿自己都没钱,不给钱爸妈是恩将仇报吗?不是啊,首先女儿自己吃饱了饭,有能力报恩才是正常的反哺啊,把自己的血抽干了,给父母喝,算什么报恩?</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">但如洛洛这般长大的人,很少能去找别人的问题,反而在缺爱环境中长大,敏感、自卑,认为自己不配得到爱,所以别看她表面完好无损,甚至每天乐观积极,没事贫贫嘴,其实内心早已经是一片废墟,且失去了自愈的能力。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">斯人已逝,再去谩骂她的父母,已没什么意义,如果骂人能让人改变,狱警都可以退休。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">而我们能从这件事里得到的唯一一点警示,就是希望如洛洛一般被原生家庭绑架的孩子,能早日脱离噩梦般的环境。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">没什么可愧疚的,“抚养”和“赡养”是对等的,你未成年时,他们抚养了你;等他们老了,再进行赡养。但在此之前,大家有手有脚,能自己赚钱自己吃饭,就各吃各的吧。</p> <p class="ql-align-justify">比干挖心,去劝谏纣王,是慷慨赴死,值得夸赞。可女儿献血,去喂养喝不饱的贪心父母,这是人间惨案。<i class="backsohu"></i>返回搜狐,查看更多</p> <!-- 政务账号添加来源标示处理 --> <!-- 政务账号添加来源标示处理 --> <p data-role="editor-name">责任编辑:</p>
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